PROBLEMS RELATED TO ABUSE OR NEGLECT

DSM-IV

IF FOCUS OF ATTENTION IS ON THE VICTIM [SURVIVOR]:

995.52 Neglect of child

995.53 Sexual abuse of child

995.54 Physical abuse of child

995.81 Physical abuse of adult

995.83 Sexual abuse of adult

IF FOCUS OF ATTENTION IS ON THE PERPETRATOR [OFFENDER] OR ON THE RELATIONAL UNIT IN WHICH BEHAVIOR OCCURS:

V61.21 Neglect; physical or sexual abuse of child (specify)

V61.12 (Physical or sexual abuse of adult by partner)

V62.83 (Physical or sexual abuse of adult by person other than partner)

Abuse affects all populations and is not restricted to specific socioeconomic or ethnic/cultural groups. Although “violence” means the use of force or physical compulsion to abuse or damage, the term “abuse” is much broader and includes physical or mental maltreatment and neglect that result in emotional, physical, or sexual injury. In the case of children, the disabled, or elderly, abuse can result from direct actions or omissions by those responsible for the individual’s care. Additionally, one’s perception of abuse is affected by cultural and religious practices, values, and biological predispositions. The problem can be generational, with victimizers often being victims of abuse themselves as children.

Violence is not a new problem; in fact, it is probably as old as humankind. However, in the United States, medicine has focused on these issues only since 1946. Therefore, the parameters of abuse are being identified and redefined on what seems to be an almost daily basis. For example, until recently women and children were considered the personal property of men and they did not own property or have rights of their own. Women viewed themselves as sexual objects and were expected to subjugate themselves/defer to the will of men. Harsh treatment of children was justified by the belief that corporal and/or excessive punishment was necessary to maintain discipline and instill values. Changes in societal beliefs and the enactment of new laws have done little to curb abuse. Today, battering is the single most common cause of injury to women, and there has been an increase in the incidence of child abuse and neglect-related fatalities reported to child protection service agencies in the United States. Whether these statistics represent an increase in incidents or are the result of changing attitudes and/or better reporting is much debated. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has declared violence to be a public health problem.

This plan of care addresses the problems of abuse and neglect in both adults and children and includes both the person who offends and the survivor of the offense.

ETIOLOGICAL THEORIES

Psychodynamics

Psychoanalytical theory suggests that unmet needs for satisfaction and security result in an underdeveloped ego and a poor self-concept in the individuals involved in violent episodes. Aggression and violence supply the offender with a sense of power and prestige that boosts the self-image and provides a significance or purpose to the individual’s life that is lacking. Some theorists have supported the hypothesis that aggression and violence are the overt expressions of powerlessness and low self-esteem. The same dynamics promote acceptance in the person who is the victim of violence.

Biological

Various components of the neurological system have been implicated in both the facilitation and inhibition of aggressive impulses. The limbic system in particular appears to be involved. In addition, higher brain centers play an important role by constantly interacting with the aggression centers. Various neurotransmitters, such as epinephrine, norepinephrine, dopamine, acetylcholine, and serotonin, may also play a role in facilitation and inhibition of aggressive impulses. This theory is consistent with the “fight-or-flight” arousal in response to stress.

Some studies suggest the possibility of a direct genetic link; however, the evidence for this has not been firmly established. Organic brain syndromes associated with various cerebral disorders have been linked to violent behavior. Particularly, areas of the limbic system and temporal lobes, brain trauma, and diseases such as encephalitis and disorders such as epilepsy have been implicated in aggressive behavior.

Family Dynamics

Child abuse is often the consequence of the interactions of parental vulnerabilities (e.g., mental illness, substance abuse); child vulnerabilities (e.g., low birth weight, difficult temperament); a particular developmental stage, such as toddler, adolescence; and social stressors (e.g., lack of social supports, young parental age, single parenthood, poverty, minority ethnicity, lack of acculturation, exposure to family violence).

Learning theory states that children learn to behave by imitating their role models, usually parents, although as they mature they are influenced by teachers, friends, and others. Individuals who were abused as children or whose parents disciplined them with physical punishment are more likely to behave in a violent manner as adults. Television and movies are believed to have an influence on developing both adaptive and maladaptive behavior. Some theorists believe that individuals who have a biological influence toward aggressive behavior are more likely to be affected by external models than those without this predisposition.

The influence of culture and social structure cannot be discounted. Difficulty in negotiating interpersonal conflict has led to a general acceptance of violence as a means of solving problems. When individuals/groups of people discover they cannot meet their needs through conventional methods, they are more likely to resort to delinquent behaviors. This may contribute to a subculture of violence within society.

CLIENT ASSESSMENT DATA BASE

Activity/Rest

Sleep problems (e.g., sleeplessness or oversleeping, nightmares, sleepwalking, sleeping in strange place [avoiding offender])

Fatigue

Ego Integrity

Negative self-appraisal, acceptance of self-blame/making excuses for the actions of others

Low self-esteem (offender/survivor)

Feelings of guilt, anger, fear and shame, helplessness, and/or powerlessness

Minimization or denial of significance of behaviors (most prominent defense mechanism)

Avoidance or fear of certain people, places, objects; submissive, fearful manner (particularly in presence of offender)

Report of stress factors (e.g., family unemployment; financial, lifestyle changes; marital discord)

Hostility toward/mistrust of others

Threatened when partner shows signs of independence or shares self/time with others (offender)

Elimination

Enuresis, encopresis

Recurrent urinary infections

Changes in tone of sphincter

Food/Fluid

Frequent vomiting; changes in appetite: anorexia, overeating (survivor)

Changes in weight; failure to gain weight appropriately/signs of malnutrition, repeated pica (neglect)

Hygiene

Wearing clothing that covers body in a manner inappropriate for weather conditions (abuse), or that is inadequate to provide protection (neglect)

Excessive/anxiety about bathing (abuse); dirty/unkempt appearance (neglect)

Neurosensory

Behavioral extremes (very aggressive/demanding conduct); extreme rage or passivity and withdrawal; age-inappropriate behavior

Mental Status:

         Memory: Blackouts, periods of amnesia; reports of flashbacks

         Disorganized thinking; difficulty concentrating/making decisions

         Inappropriate affect; may be hypervigilant, anxious, depressed

Mood swing—“dual personality,” extremely loving, kind, contrite after battering episode (offender)

Pathological jealousy; poor impulse control; limited coping skills; lacks empathy (offender)

Rocking, thumb sucking, or other habitual behavior; restlessness (survivor)

Psychiatric manifestations (e.g., dissociative phenomena including multiple personalities (sexual abuse); borderline personality disorder [adult incest survivors])

Presence of neurological deficits/CNS damage without external injuries evident (may indicate “shaken baby” syndrome)

Pain/Discomfort

Dependent on specific injuries/form of abuse

Multiple somatic complaints (e.g., stomach pain, chronic pelvic pain, spastic colon, headache)

Safety

Bruises, bite marks, skin welts, burns (e.g., scalding, cigarette), bald spots, lacerations, unusual bleeding, rashes/itching in the genital area; anal fissures, skin tags, hemorrhoids, scar tissue, changes in tone of sphincter

Recurrent injuries; history of multiple accidents, fractures/internal injuries

Description of incident incongruent with injury, delay in seeking treatment

Lack of age-appropriate supervision, inattention to avoidable hazards in the home (neglect)

Intense episodes of rage directed at self or others

Self-injurious/suicidal behavior; involvement in high-risk activities

History of suicidal behavior of family members

Sexuality

Changes in sexual awareness or activity, including compulsive masturbation, precocious sex play, tendency to repeat or reenact incest/abuse experience; excessive curiosity about sex; sexually abusing another child; promiscuity; overly anxious/ inhibited about sexual anatomy or behavior

May display feminine sex-role stereotypes; confusion about sexuality (male survivors); may have unconscious homosexual tendencies (male offenders of incest)

Reports of decreased sexual desire (as adult), erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and/or anorgasmia; dyspareunia, vaginismus; flashbacks during intercourse; inability to engage in sex without anxiety

Episodes of marital rape or forced intercourse

Impaired sexual relationship between parents (incest)

Parent/female careprovider aware or strongly suspects incestual behavior, may be grateful not to be focus of partner’s sexual demands

Obstetrical history of preterm labor, abruptio placentae, spontaneous abortions, low birth weight, fetal injury/death (1 in 6 pregnant women are battered during pregnancy); lack of prenatal care until 3rd trimester (abused women twice as likely to delay care)

Vaginal bleeding; linear laceration of hymen, vaginal mucosa

Presence of STDs, vaginitis, genital warts, or pregnancy (especially child)

Social Interactions

Multiple family/relationship stressors reported

Household members may include step-relatives or a paramour

History of frequent moves/relocation

Few/no support systems

Lacks knowledge of appropriate child-rearing practices (child abusers)

Inability to form satisfactory peer relationships; withdrawal in social settings; inappropriate attachment to imaginary companion

Very possessive, perceives partner as a possession; repeatedly insults/humiliates partner, strives to isolate partner from others/keeps partner totally dependent, challenges partners honesty, uses intimidation to achieve power/control over partner (offender)

Lack of assertive communication skills; difficulty negotiating interpersonal conflicts

Cheating, lying; low achievement or drop in school performance

Running away from home/relationship

Parent may interfere with child’s normal peer relationships to prevent exposure (incest)

Memories of childhood may contain blank periods, excessive fantasizing/daydreaming; report of violence/neglect in family of origin

Family Interaction Pattern: Less verbally responsive, increased use of direct commands and critical statements, decreased verbal praise or acknowledgment, belittling, denigrating, scapegoating, ignoring; significant imbalance of power/use of hitting as control measure, patterns of enmeshment, closed family system; one parent domineering, impulsive; other partner passive, submissive

Teaching/Learning

May be any age, race, religion/culture, or educational level; from all socioeconomic groups (usual child profile is under age 3 or perceived as different due to temperamental traits, congenital abnormalities, chronic illness)

Learning disabilities include attention-deficit disorders, conduct disorders

Delay in achieving developmental tasks, declines on cognitive testing; brain damage, habitual truancy/absence from school for nonlegitimate reasons (neglect)

Substance abuse by individuals involved in abuse/neglect, or other family member(s) (most often cocaine, crack, amphetamines, alcohol)

Use of multiple healthcare providers/resources (limits awareness of repeated nature of problem); lack of age-appropriate health screening/immunization, dental care, absence of necessary prostheses, such as eyeglasses, hearing aid (neglect)

DIAGNOSTIC STUDIES

Physical and Psychological Testing

dependent on individual situation/needs

Screening Tests (e.g., Child Behavior Checklist): Elevated scores on the internalization scale reveal behaviors described as fearful, inhibited, depressed, overcontrolled or undercontrolled, aggressive, antisocial.

NURSING PRIORITIES

1.   Provide physical/emotional safety.

2.   Develop a trusting therapeutic relationship.

3.   Enhance sense of self-esteem.

4.   Improve problem-solving ability.

5.   Involve family/partner in therapeutic program.

DISCHARGE GOALS

1.   Physical/emotional safety maintained.

2.   Trusting relationship with one person established.

3.   Self-growth and positive approaches to problems evident.

4.   Client/SOs participating in ongoing therapy.

5.   Plan in place to meet needs after discharge.

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                TRAUMA, risk for

Risk Factors May Include:                                                           Dependent position in relationship(s)

History of previous abuse/neglect

Lack or nonuse of support systems/resources

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  [Not applicable; presence of signs and symptoms establishes an actual diagnosis.]

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Be free of injury/signs of neglect.

Client Will:

Client/Family Will:                                                                       Recognize need for/seek assistance to prevent abuse.

Identify and access resources to assist in promoting a safe environment.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Note age/developmental level of survivor,                                      Children under 3, those perceived as having
mentation, agility, physical abilities/limitations.                             different temperament, or those with congenital
                                                                                                                problems/chronic illness are at increased risk of
                                                                                                                being abused/neglected. Additionally, the elderly
                                                                                                                who are dependent on others because of age/
                                                                                                                infirmities or individuals with significant
                                                                                                                disabilities are also at risk. Those who are
                                                                                                                incapable of meeting their own needs/directing
                                                                                                                their personal affairs may require alternate
                                                                                                                placement/court-ordered advocate.

Review physical complaints/injuries including those                    The visible evidence of physical abuse/neglect
that suggest possibility of sexual abuse (e.g., bladder                  makes it more easily recognized. Although these
infection, bruises in the genital area, reports of                              clients display signs of emotional involvement,
aggression or inappropriate sexual behavior). Note                      inappropriate affect, and behaviors such as
affect and demeanor.                                                                           withdrawal, acting out, or suicidal gestures in the
                                                                                                                absence of physical evidence of abuse/neglect,
                                                                                                                suggests presence of emotional abuse. Child sexual
                                                                                                                abuse is particularly difficult to diagnose.
                                                                                                                Although the signs noted here are not definitive,
                                                                                                                they suggest need for further investigation.

Identify individual concerns of client.                                              Concerns will vary dependent on individual
                                                                                                                circumstances and affect choice of interventions,
                                                                                                                possible options.

Interview offender(s)/family in a nonjudgmental                            Can provide insight into risks to client and
manner, displaying tact and professional concern                         potential for repetition of behavior. The need for
for individual(s).                                                                                   power over or control of survivor, excessive
                                                                                                                jealousy/overpossessiveness, frequency of verbal
                                                                                                                arguments that can escalate to violence, substance
                                                                                                                abuse, severity of past injuries inflicted, history of
                                                                                                                forced or threatened sexual acts, and/or threats to
                                                                                                                kill client (especially when offender indicates a
                                                                                                                belief he or she cannot live without partner)
                                                                                                                greatly increases the level of concern for survivor’s
                                                                                                                safety and choice of interventions.

Maintain objectivity and avoid blame or accusations                   Individuals will be defensive and may react with
during interview process.                                                                   hostility and anger, or may withdraw, making it
                                                                                                                difficult to obtain accurate information. Initially,
                                                                                                                offender may not be known, and even if family is
                                                                                                                not involved in situation, members may feel guilt
                                                                                                                that they did not protect the survivor. Avoiding
                                                                                                                blame promotes open communication and
                                                                                                                therapeutic interactions and may enhance the
                                                                                                                investigation process.

Use open-ended questions with gentle, caring                              Survivor and parent/family members will
manner. Speak at individual’s level (e.g., child vs.                         respond more positively to caring approach and be
adult, or developmentally disabled individual).                              more available for help to correct underlying
Provide privacy as indicated by age, circumstances                     problems when dealt with in this way. Note: Care
of the situation.                                                                                    must be taken to avoid leading the child survivor,
                                                                                                                or suggesting answers to questions. As these
                                                                                                                individuals are vulnerable, they are suggestible
                                                                                                                and may provide answers to “please” the
                                                                                                                therapist, resulting in questionable information.

Use techniques of play therapy to obtain information                  The child may be afraid to tell/be unable to
from children. Videotape session(s) as appropriate.                      adequately verbalize what has happened. Play
                                                                                                                therapy is a nonthreatening method of
                                                                                                                observation/Active-listening that allows for free
                                                                                                                expression of the child’s feelings and perceptions       
                                                                                                                without undue influence from adults. Videotaping
                                                                                                                allows various parties (legal and counseling) to
                                                                                                                view the same data, reducing risk of
                                                                                                                misinterpretation and negating need for child to
                                                                                                                submit to repeated questioning, which may color
                                                                                                                data over time. In addition, this can provide
                                                                                                                safeguards for both therapist and survivor.

Note sequence of events as related by parent(s)/                          May reveal reality of what happened.
caregivers or partner, paying particular attention to                      Offender(s)/family members are upset and afraid
inconsistencies and contradictory reports.                                     about what has happened/the potential
                                                                                                                consequences and may try to cover up
                                                                                                                circumstances of injury.

Evaluate family and home environment. Note                                 Provides clues to need for change to prevent
particularly areas of stress related to abusive                                 further problems. Families who move their
occurrence.                                                                                           residence frequently and are socially isolated, and
                                                                                                                stepfamilies are at greater risk. Children who have
                                                                                                                been separated from parents because of
                                                                                                                prematurity or neonatal illness also may be more
                                                                                                                at risk, owing in part to problems with bonding
                                                                                                                and situational stressors (e.g., financial concerns,
                                                                                                                demands of caregiving role).

Identify individual risk factors for recidivism of                             Offender’s resistance to ongoing therapy,
abuse/neglect.                                                                                      substance abuse, immaturity, and narcissistic
                                                                                                                personality traits increase risk that violent
                                                                                                                behavior will recur.

Help adult survivor develop a safety plan                                       Typically, these individuals have few/are
incorporating available personal and community                           separated from support systems and require
resources.                                                                                              assistance to identify options and initiate a plan.
                                                                                                                Additionally, availability of resources such as
                                                                                                                women’s shelters, counseling services, or
                                                                                                                ombudsman for the elderly/disabled varies
                                                                                                                according to locality.

Discuss importance of involved adults participating                    Without outside intervention, the behavior is
in therapeutic program. Identify consequences of                         likely to continue. Loss of family (divorce,
abusive behaviors.                                                                              separation, restraining order, alternate placement),
                                                                                                                loss of property/income, possible loss of job, as
                                                                                                                well as potential for incarceration can occur.
                                                                                                                Studies indicate skilled specialized counseling has
                                                                                                                a success rate of 50%–75% in eliminating violent
                                                                                                                behavior.

Collaborative

Follow correct procedures and be familiar with                              Legal obligations vary from state to state, but most
reporting protocols of institution/community.                                states have mandatory reporting of suspected
                                                                                                                child abuse and some have added mandatory
                                                                                                                reporting for adults as well. Sensitive handling of
                                                                                                                this procedure can provide protection for the client
                                                                                                                and direct families to the help they need to
                                                                                                                promote improved functioning.

Arrange for home-based interventions (e.g., visiting                    Home visitation/support provides opportunity for
nurse, First Visitor, Bright Beginnings) as indicated.                    teaching/modeling of effective child rearing
                                                                                                                behaviors, ongoing monitoring of home situation,
                                                                                                                and early identification of/intervention for
                                                                                                                developing problems to help maintain the family
                                                                                                                unit.

Refer to individual/family therapy.                                                    As in the case of violent behavior, involved
                                                                                                                individuals need to distinguish between validity of
                                                                                                                emotions and the inappropriateness of behavior.
                                                                                                                Violence is the choice of the offender, is under his
                                                                                                                or her control, and is his or her sole responsibility
                                                                                                                although the dynamics of relationship(s) may be a
                                                                                                                factor.

Refer individuals to substance abuse program, as                         Substance abuse has a negative impact on the
appropriate.                                                                                           therapeutic process and increases likelihood that
                                                                                                                behavior will recur/continue.

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                SELF ESTEEM, chronic low

May Be Related to:                                                                         Personal vulnerability, feelings of abandonment, circular process of self-negation

Life choices perpetuating failure/abuse

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  Self-negating verbalization, expressions of shame/guilt

Evaluating self as unable to deal with events

Rationalizing away/rejecting positive feedback and exaggerating negative feedback about self

Hesitancy to try new things/situations; nonassertive/passive, indecisive, or overly conforming behaviors

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Verbalize understanding of negative evaluation of

Client Will:                                                                                     self and reasons for this problem.

Participate in treatment program to promote change in self-evaluation.

Demonstrate behaviors/lifestyle changes to promote positive self-esteem.

Verbalize increased sense of self-esteem in relation to current situation.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Develop therapeutic relationship. Be attentive,                              Promotes self-esteem by validating the individual
validate client’s communication, provide                                        as a worthwhile person who has important things
encouragement for efforts, maintain open                                       to say and has value in the situation. This
communication, use skills of Active-listening and                         relationship may be slow to develop because
“I-messages.”                                                                                       client’s feelings of betrayal will influence ability
                                                                                                                to trust others as well as herself or himself. Note:
                                                                                                                Males who have been sexually abused may have
                                                                                                                difficulty with self-disclosure to male therapists,
                                                                                                                and young children may fear being seduced by
                                                                                                                male therapist or be concerned that female
                                                                                                                therapist will not act in a protective manner.

Note body language and hypervigilant attitude.                            After period of testing reliability of
                                                                                                                caregiver/therapist, client may begin to relax
                                                                                                                vigilance, indicating initiation of trust relationship
                                                                                                                and openness to progress in therapy.

Assess content of negative self-talk.                                               “Damaged goods” syndrome and self-blame for
                                                                                                                what has occurred are common. Additionally, this
                                                                                                                may be reinforced by negative responses by
                                                                                                                individuals/peers, hostility from family members,
                                                                                                                and inner feelings of shame/guilt. Depending on
                                                                                                                severity, this will likely be the initial focus of
                                                                                                                therapy once survivor safety is assured.

Discuss survivor’s perceptions of self related to                           Client frequently believes she or he is “lacking” or
what is happening. Confront misconceptions.                               in some way causing the behavior in the other
                                                                                                                person. Gently confronting these misperceptions
                                                                                                                can help client accept the reality that she or he is
                                                                                                                not responsible for the other’s behavior.

Emphasize need for client to avoid comparing self                        Pattern has been established to make unfavorable
to others.                                                                                               comparisons, and stopping this thought process is
                                                                                                                a step toward increasing client’s self-esteem.

Be aware that people are not programmed to be                             In order to develop positive self-esteem,
rational—rather, it is a learned behavior/skill.                                 individual needs to seek information/facts, choose
                                                                                                                to learn, choose to think rather than merely
                                                                                                                accepting/reacting to what is happening, to
                                                                                                                respect self and value honesty.

Confront client’s tendency to minimize situation.                          Gentle confrontation can help the client begin to
Discuss impact of abuse/neglect on individual.                             accept the reality of what has happened. Giving up
                                                                                                                the “fantasy” of “things as you wish they were”
                                                                                                                provides a stronger base for client to build on,
                                                                                                                enhancing likelihood of successful outcome.

Proceed with caution when helping client recall/                           While the concept of repression has long been
investigate areas of life that have been forgotten.                         accepted in psychology, the phenomenon of “false
                                                                                                                memories” has raised questions regarding the
                                                                                                                validity of what is remembered. The suggestion of
                                                                                                                questioning and the client’s own misperceptions
                                                                                                                and fantasies can lead to inaccurate conclusions
                                                                                                                and accusations that may be damaging to the
                                                                                                                client and family.

Identify what behavior does for client (positive                             Promotes awareness of why things are the way
intention, i.e., maintains dependent position, creates                    they are and provides a starting point for making
sense of power). Ask what options are available to                      changes.
the client/SO.

Set limits on aggressive or problem behaviors, such                     These behaviors diminish self-esteem, and
as acting out, suicide preoccupation, or rumination.                     continuation of them interferes with recovery.
(Refer to ND: Violence, risk for, directed at self/                             Rumination locks client into a circular path rather
others.)                                                                                                  than allowing individual to move forward and
                                                                                                                “get on” with life.

Discuss inaccuracies in self-perception with client/                      Client may not see positive aspects of self that
SO(s). Help client to recognize view of self as                                others see, and bringing it to awareness may help
“the victim.”                                                                                          change perception. Dwelling on/sense of being
                                                                                                                “the victim” can interfere with sense of worth and
                                                                                                                impede recovery.

Have client list current/past successes and strengths.                 Helps develop internal sense of self-worth, new
Provide feedback using positive “I-messages” rather                   coping behaviors. The use of praise is external
than praise.                                                                                           control and may be rejected by the individual.

Discuss past choices, helping client identify future                      Negative view of self and perceived lack of
options. Avoid blaming client; assuring client that                       options can interfere with client taking control of
his or her decision was the best that could be made                     own life and developing new behaviors to prevent
at the time.                                                                                             future abusive situations. Note: Appropriately
                                                                                                                attributing responsibility for the abuse to
                                                                                                                other(s)/accepting responsibility for own actions
                                                                                                                as appropriate, is an important part of healing,
                                                                                                                allowing client to stop self-criticism and begin
                                                                                                                self-nurturing and protection.

Help client identify goals that are personally                                  Provides direction for client to work toward. Note:
achievable and supportive of self.                                                    Clients not only need to feel differently about
                                                                                                                themselves but also need to treat themselves
                                                                                                                differently.

Allow client to progress at own rate.                                                Adaptation to a change in self-concept depends on
                                                                                                                its significance to individual, disruption of
                                                                                                                lifestyle, and length of illness/debilitation. Note:
                                                                                                                Emotional abuse (e.g., rejecting, terrorizing,
                                                                                                                ignoring, isolating, or corrupting) may have
                                                                                                                continued for a prolonged period of time before
                                                                                                                being diagnosed and therefore may be more
                                                                                                                pervasive and more difficult to overcome than
                                                                                                                physical abuse.

Involve in activities/exercise program.                                             Provides opportunities to practice new skills and
                                                                                                                promotes socialization; helps relieve anger/stress
                                                                                                                and enhance sense of general well-being.

Encourage development of social/vocational skills.                      Participation in classes/activities/hobbies that
                                                                                                                client enjoys or would like to experience promotes
                                                                                                                successful accomplishments, enhancing self-worth.
                                                                                                                Also provides options for increased independence
                                                                                                                and future options.

Give positive reinforcement for progress noted.                            Helps client accept self as a worthwhile person.
                                                                                                                Positive words of encouragement support
                                                                                                                development of coping behaviors.

Evaluate educational placement.                                                       Special program may be needed to help client
                                                                                                                overcome educational deficiencies and catch up to
                                                                                                                appropriate grade level/obtain GED, etc.

Identify family dynamics past and present.                                     Family interactions contribute to development of
                                                                                                                self-esteem in family members and provide clues
                                                                                                                to problems contributing to abuse.

Provide age-/situation-appropriate bibliotherapy.                         Reading information supplements and supports
                                                                                                                other therapeutic intervention.

Collaborative

Provide therapy in a team setting and seek peer                            Opportunity for open discussion increases
consultation as appropriate.                                                              therapist’s awareness of personal feelings
                                                                                                                regarding abuse behavior/victimization of client,
                                                                                                                overidentifying with client, merging with the
                                                                                                                criminal justice system’s (society’s) need for
                                                                                                                retribution or need to “rescue” client, which could
                                                                                                                lead to countertransference problems and interfere
                                                                                                                with the progress of therapy. Note: This concern
                                                                                                                may be of greater significance when survivor is a
                                                                                                                child who has been sexually abused and the
                                                                                                                therapist has discomfort regarding own sexuality
                                                                                                                and unconscious childhood fantasies.

Involve in classes such as assertiveness training,                        Assists with learning skills to promote self-esteem.
positive self-image, communication skills.

Provide information about available community                            Influencing one’s community through volunteer or
programs and opportunities for involvement.                                 paid service (e.g., abuse prevention programs or as
                                                                                                                a survivor advocate) allows individual to be
                                                                                                                proactive and view self as a contributing member
                                                                                                                of society, aiding in client’s own recovery process.

Refer to clinical nurse specialist, psychologist/                             Type, severity, frequency, duration, and age of
psychiatrist, group therapy is indicated.                                         individual at time of abuse affect recovery. Client
                                                                                                                may require long-term and/or specialized
                                                                                                                therapy, such as hypnosis. Additionally, group
                                                                                                                therapy provides an opportunity for sharing own
                                                                                                                healing with other survivors/offenders and learn
                                                                                                                new skills to enhance sense of self-worth.

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                POWERLESSNESS

May Be Related to:                                                                         Legitimate dependency on other(s) (child, elderly, disabled individual), personal vulnerability

Interpersonal interaction (e.g., misuse of power, force, abusive relationships)

Lifestyle of helplessness (e.g., repeated failures, dependency)

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  Verbal expressions of having no control

Reluctance to express true feelings, fearing alienation from caregiver(s)

Apathy (withdrawal, resignation, crying),
passivity; anger

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Express sense of control over future.

Client Will:                                                                                     Identify areas over which individual has control.

Engage in problem-solving activities.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Identify circumstances of individual situation                                Promotes understanding of factors involved and
contributing to client’s sense of powerlessness.                           enables client to begin to develop sense of control
                                                                                                                over self and future.

Determine client locus of control.                                                     Client who believes problems are caused by others
                                                                                                                (external) will need to begin to accept own
                                                                                                                responsibility for being in charge of self. Making a
                                                                                                                decision to take control of own life is crucial to
                                                                                                                making changes needed to support growth.

Help client identify factors that are under own                               Provides a starting point for client to begin to
control.                                                                                                  assume control over own life.

Identify use of manipulative behavior and reactions                     Manipulation is used for management of
of client, SO(s), and healthcare providers.                                       powerlessness because of distrust of others, fear of
                                                                                                                loss of power/control, fear of intimacy, and search
                                                                                                                for approval. This can interfere with personal and
                                                                                                                therapeutic relationships.

Discuss needs openly with client. Set agreed-on                           Promotes meeting needs directly and decreases the
routines for meeting identified needs.                                              need for client to use manipulation.

Identify when flashbacks are problem for survivor                        May occur with fatigue or stress and generally
and how they may be minimized.                                                       intensify feelings of loss of control. Avoidance of
                                                                                                                individual “triggers” may reduce occurrence.

Collaborative

Refer to assertiveness program.                                                        As client learns these skills and becomes more
                                                                                                                active/assertive in relationships, she or he is more
                                                                                                                likely to set limits on the behaviors of others,
                                                                                                                express feelings more openly/directly, and take
                                                                                                                control of own life in a healthy manner.

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                COPING, INDIVIDUAL, ineffective

May Be Related to:                                                                         Situational/maturational crises

Overwhelming threat to self, personal vulnerability

Inadequate support systems

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  Verbalization of inability to cope/ask for help

Chronic worry, anxiety, depression, poor
self-esteem

Inability to problem-solve, lack of assertive behaviors

Inappropriate use of defense mechanisms (e.g., denial, withdrawal)

High illness rate, destructive behavior toward self/others

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Assess the current situation accurately (related to

Client Will:                                                                                     age, individual condition).

Identify ineffective coping behaviors and consequences.

Verbalize feelings congruent with behavior.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Help client separate issues of vulnerability from                            Client blames self/others for situation without
blame.                                                                                                     looking at own responsibility for victim stance.
                                                                                                                Although this does not excuse abuse, client needs
                                                                                                                to change victim behaviors to gain control of self.

Active-listen and identify client perceptions/                                 Client often enters the healthcare system in
understanding of current situation. Evaluate                                  response to a crisis. This is an opportunity to help
decision-making ability.                                                                      the client look at reality of abuse and begin to
                                                                                                                make changes.

Identify previous methods of dealing with life                               Provides clues to coping skills that can be used for
problems. Note use of denial.                                                            personal growth. Denial is the most prominent
                                                                                                                defense mechanism used by client/family
                                                                                                                members to protect against shame/guilt and to
                                                                                                                preserve intactness of the family, and it must be
                                                                                                                dealt with before progress can be made.

Encourage verbalization of fears and anxieties and                       Expressing feelings helps client to become aware
expression of feelings of denial, depression, and                           of the feelings, recognize and deal with what is
anger. Let client know that these are normal reactions.                 happening.

Encourage and support client in evaluating lifestyle.                    Identifying areas of life that promote abusive
Assess stressors and make plan for necessary                              reactions/interactions helps client make changes
change.                                                                                                  in coping methods to prevent recurrences.

Collaborative

Refer to appropriate resources as indicated by                              May need additional therapy/group involvement
individual situation (e.g., support groups, AA,                              to learn new coping skills.
psychotherapy, spiritual resources).

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                VIOLENCE, risk for, directed at self or others

Risk Factors May Include:                                                           Negative role modeling, developmental crises

History of abuse

Rage reactions; suicidal behavior

Organic brain syndrome; temporal lobe epilepsy

[Possible Indicators:]                                                                    Anger, rage; fear of others

Increasing anxiety level, motor activity

Hostile threatening verbalizations; body language indicating effort to control behavior

Overt and aggressive acts

Expressed intent/desire to harm self/others;
self-destructive behaviors, substance abuse

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Acknowledge realities of the situation.

Client Will:                                                                                     Verbalize understanding of why behavior occurs.

Identify precipitating factors/responses.

Demonstrate new skills/methods for dealing with own responses.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Determine underlying dynamics of individual                                Necessary to determine needs/safety concerns.
situation (e.g., pattern of abuse, contributing factors
to violent behavior, relationship of involved persons
[parent/child, spouse or lover], family pattern of
communication.)

Note signs of suicidal/homicidal intent (e.g.,                                  Allows for initiation of safety measures to protect
statements of intent/threats, development of a plan,                     client/others. Note: Association between suicidal
giving away belongings, possession of means).                            behavior and physical abuse may be related to
                                                                                                                modeling of aggressive behavior within
                                                                                                                family/exposure to suicidal behavior of family
                                                                                                                member(s) as well as biological risk in family for
                                                                                                                disorders associated with suicide (e.g., substance
                                                                                                                abuse and affective or impulsive conduct
                                                                                                                disorders).

Determine client’s perception of self, impact of abuse                  May see self as useless, damaged goods without
on life, and future expectations.                                                        hope for positive change/productive future, which
                                                                                                                may result in feelings of hopelessness and the
                                                                                                                perception of lacking options. Depth of rage and
                                                                                                                extent of feelings of powerlessness may predict
                                                                                                                potential for violent behavior.

Explore death fantasies when expressed (e.g.,                                Discussion of fantasies helps client look at reality
“They’ll be sorry.”).                                                                            of ideas and begin to deal with them.

Note coping behaviors being used currently by the                     Provides information about mechanisms client
client (e.g., denial, helplessness, rage reaction).                             uses to maintain the status quo, which may also
                                                                                                                increase risk for violent behavior.

Acknowledge reality of suicide/homicide as an                             Acknowledging feelings helps the client begin to
option. Discuss consequences of actions if individual                 look at what might happen if actions were acted
were to follow through on intent. Ask how it will                          on, own ability to control self and make choices
help client resolve problems.                                                             regarding recovery.

Encourage appropriate expression of feelings.                               Promotes awareness of feelings and ability to deal
Acknowledge reality and normalcy of these feelings.                   with them in acceptable ways.
Set limits on acting-out behaviors.

Accept client’s anger without reacting on an                                 Client’s anger is directed at situation and those
emotional basis.                                                                                   involved, not at healthcare provider, so remaining
                                                                                                                separate from the client allows therapist to be
                                                                                                                helpful to the resolution of the anger.

Contract with client for safety.                                                          Provides parameters to help client deal with
                                                                                                                destructive thoughts/actions and helps to keep
                                                                                                                client safe.

Assist client to learn new coping skills (e.g., assertive                 Promotes sense of self-worth and ability to control
rather than nonassertive/aggressive behavior,                              own actions/situation.
effective parenting techniques).

Collaborative

Administer antidepressants as indicated.                                        Helps client deal with feelings of sadness and
                                                                                                                hopelessness and move forward in therapy. Age of
                                                                                                                client and nature of abusive situation affect depth
                                                                                                                of client’s depression.

Refer to inpatient program as appropriate.                                      May require more intensive therapy to deal with
                                                                                                                covert forms of self-destructive behavior (e.g.,
                                                                                                                substance abuse, heavy risk-taking/runaway
                                                                                                                behavior).

Refer to community resources (e.g., social services,                     Helps attain/maintain recovery program.
AA, others), as appropriate.

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                FAMILY PROCESSES, altered [dysfunctional]/PARENTING, altered

May Be Related to:                                                                         Situational crises (e.g., economic, illness, change in roles), developmental transitions [loss/gain of family member(s), blending of families]

Poor role model, lack of support systems; unrealistic expectation for self, infant, partner

Physical/psychosocial abuse of nurturing figure

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  Family system does not meet its members’ physical, emotional, spiritual, or security needs

Inability of family members to relate to each other for mutual growth and maturation

Rigidity in functions, rules, roles; verbalization of inability to control child, resentment toward child, unresolved disappointment in gender or physical characteristics of child

Inattention to child needs, inappropriate caretaking behaviors, history of child abuse or abandonment, incidence of physical/psychological trauma

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Express feelings freely and appropriately.

Family/Parent Will:                                                                      Demonstrate individual involvement in
problem-solving process.

Engage in appropriate parenting behaviors.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Determine composition of family, developmental                           Helps identify problem areas/strengths to
stage, presence/involvement of extended family,                           formulate plans to change abusive situation. Lack
use of special supports.                                                                      of/ineffective use of support systems increases risk of recidivism.

Review type, severity, duration of problem, and                            Affects choice of interventions. Abuse is an act of
contribution of, as well as impact on, individual                            commission, whereas neglect is considered an act
family members.                                                                                    of omission. These behaviors indicate the presence
                                                                                                                of problems with relationships and/or parenting
                                                                                                                skills and individual problems such as inability to
                                                                                                                deal with stressors, substance abuse, mental
                                                                                                                illness, cognitive limitations, or criminality. Even if
                                                                                                                the behavior is the result of a single individual, all
                                                                                                                family members may be involved in the
                                                                                                                denial/coverup or even passive condoning of the
                                                                                                                behavior. Additionally, all family members will be
                                                                                                                affected by the disclosure of the behavior.

Assess boundaries of family members such as                              These factors are critical to understanding
whether members share family identity, have little                         individual family dynamics and developing
sense of individuality, seem emotionally distant/                          strategies for change. Family that pressures
not connected with one another.                                                      survivor to heal quickly/forgive offender, blames
                                                                                                                individual for causing pain by disclosing situation,
                                                                                                                fails to acknowledge significance of abuse, or
                                                                                                                minimizes/negates need for counseling is
                                                                                                                nonsupportive and will likely impede recovery
                                                                                                                process.

Discuss parenting techniques and parents’                                    Ineffective parenting and unrealistic expectations
expectations. Review developmental levels of                                contribute to abuse. Understanding normal
children.                                                                                                 responses, progression of developmental
                                                                                                                milestones may help parents cope with changes.
                                                                                                                (Refer to ND: Growth and Development, altered.)

Note cultural and religious factors.                                                   Beliefs about family roles, parenting style, and
                                                                                                                religious beliefs may contribute to participation
                                                                                                                in/acceptance of practices that are seen as
                                                                                                                abusive.

Discuss negative mode of individual interactions.                        Promotes successful interactions to break cycle of
Emphasize importance of continuous, open dialogue                   abuse. Keeping family secrets is destructive and
between family members using therapeutic                                     can impede the change process.
communication skills.

Determine current “family rules.” Identify areas of                        Rules may be imposed by adults rather than
needed change.                                                                                    through a democratic process involving all family
                                                                                                                members, leading to conflict and angry
                                                                                                                confrontations. Setting positive family rules with
                                                                                                                all family members participating can promote a
                                                                                                                functional family.

Identify and encourage use of previously successful                   Everyone has positive ways of dealing with life
coping behaviors.                                                                                stressors, and when these are identified and
                                                                                                                supported they can help to change abusive
                                                                                                                situation.

Discuss therapeutic concept of forgiveness for covert                Forgiving others and oneself takes time, but can
acts as well as acts of omission.                                                        free individuals from the past, allowing them to
                                                                                                                move forward with life. Although forgiving does
                                                                                                                not condone the actions, it may help heal
                                                                                                                relationships.

Acknowledge realities of situation and inability to                        Family may not change, or relationship may be
change others.                                                                                      permanently destroyed. Individual needs to go
                                                                                                                forward with own life and healing process.

Collaborative

Encourage family participation in multidisciplinary                       Participation in family and group therapy for
team conference/group therapy as appropriate.                             13–18 months increases likelihood of success as
                                                                                                                interactional issues (e.g., marital conflict,
                                                                                                                scapegoating of the abused child) can be
                                                                                                                addressed/dealt with. Involvement with others
                                                                                                                can help family members to experience new ways
                                                                                                                of interacting and gain insight into their behavior,
                                                                                                                providing opportunity for change.

Refer to classes (e.g., Parent Effectiveness), specific                    Can assist family to effect positive change/
disease/disability support groups (including                                 enhance conflict resolution. Parents may require
substance abuse resources)/spiritual advisor as                           positive role modeling to learn nonpunitive child-
indicated.                                                                                               rearing techniques. Presence of substance abuse
                                                                                                                problems requires all family members to seek
                                                                                                                support/assistance in dealing with situation to
                                                                                                                promote a healthy outcome.

Refer family to community programs/resources                             When the individual is willing to accept
(e.g., support/psychotherapy groups, social services                  responsibility for past behavior, self-help
as needed).                                                                                            organizations help families overcome stigma of
                                                                                                                situation and achieve greater self-esteem while
                                                                                                                providing professionally supervised treatment.
                                                                                                                Note: High dropout rates have been reported
                                                                                                                when abusive parents are referred to traditional
                                                                                                                community mental health clinics. Parents often
                                                                                                                view authority figures with suspicion and mistrust
                                                                                                                and require more personal approaches (e.g., 24-
                                                                                                                hour availability of counselors, evening and after-
                                                                                                                hours appointments).

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT, altered

May Be Related to:                                                                         Inadequate caretaking (physical/emotional
neglect or abuse)

Indifference, inconsistent responsiveness, multiple caretakers

Environmental and stimulation deficiencies

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  Delay or difficulty in performing skills (including self-care or self-control activities) appropriate for age

Altered physical growth

Loss of previously acquired skills, precocious or accelerated skill attainment

Flat affect, listlessness, decreased responses

Desired Outcomes/Evaluations Criteria—                               Perform motor, social, and/or expressive skills

Child Will:                                                                                      typical of age group, within scope of individual capabilities.

Perform self-care and self-control activities appropriate for age/development level.

Parents/Caregivers Will:                                                            Verbalize understanding of developmental delay/deviation and plan(s) for intervention.

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Determine existing condition(s) that contribute to                         May be long-term physical/emotional abuse,
developmental deviation. Note severity/                                         situational disruption, or inadequate assistance
pervasiveness of situation.                                                                during period of crisis or transition. Identifying
                                                                                                                individual situation of abuse/neglect guides
                                                                                                                choice of interventions.

Ascertain nature of parenting/caretaking activities                       Provides information about needs of family/child.
and parents’ expectations of the child (e.g.,                                    Parents’ unrealistic expectations of the
inadequate, inconsistent, unrealistic/insufficient                           abilities/independence needs of the child may
expectations; lack of stimulation, inappropriate                             lead to demands for behavior that the child is
responsiveness and limit-setting).                                                    unable to accomplish or may interfere with the
                                                                                                                developmental process. Note: Conflict may
                                                                                                                especially arise during the preschool and teen
                                                                                                                years, when separation issues are paramount.

Identify developmental age/stage of child, expected                     Baseline information notes areas of deviation,
skills/activities using authoritative texts (e.g., Gesell)                   skills affected, whether pervasive or one area of
or assessment tools (e.g., Draw-a-Person, Denver                         difficulty. Helps determine options/appropriate
Developmental Screening Test).                                                       interventions.

Provide information regarding normal growth and                         Helps parents/caregivers to develop realistic
developmental process and appropriate expectations                   expectations about child’s abilities and potential.
for individual child.

Note significant stressful events that have occurred                    Losses and separation such as the death of a
recently in the family.                                                                          parent, divorce, or unemployment may tax the
                                                                                                                supportive abilities of the parents/caregivers.

Avoid blame when discussing contributing factors.                     Parents usually feel inadequate and blame
                                                                                                                themselves for being “a poor parent.” Note: Adding
                                                                                                                blame will not be helpful for changing behavior.

Support attempts to maintain or return to optimal                          Providing assistance enables parents to progress in
level of self-control or self-care activities.                                       learning new skills and helping child develop to
                                                                                                                fullest potential.

Involve parents/caregivers in role-play, group                               Provides opportunities to practice new behaviors,
activities.                                                                                               enhance self-confidence and sense of self-worth.

Provide list/copies of pertinent reference materials.                      Bibliotherapy provides information to encourage
                                                                                                                questions and additional learning.

Collaborative

Consult appropriate professional resources (e.g.,                          A team approach is necessary to coordinate an
occupational/rehabilitation/speech therapists,                               individual plan of care to optimize child’s growth
special education teacher, job counselor).                                      and development.

Encourage attendance at appropriate educational                         Participation in these activities will provide parent
programs (e.g., Parent Effectiveness classes, infant                      with new skills to promote effective coping and
stimulation sessions, nurturing programs).                                     enable avoidance of abusive/neglectful behaviors.

NURSING DIAGNOSIS                                                                SEXUAL dysfunction/SEXUALITY PATTERNS, altered

May Be Related to:                                                                         Ineffectual or absent role models; impaired relationship with a significant other

Vulnerability

Physical/psychosocial abuse (e.g., harmful relationships)

Misinformation or lack of knowledge

Possibly Evidenced by:                                                                  Verbalization of a problem; reported difficulties, limitations, or changes in sexual behaviors or activities

Inability to achieve desired satisfaction

Conflicts involving values

Seeking of confirmation of desirability

Desired Outcomes/Evaluation Criteria—                                 Verbalize understanding of sexual anatomy/

Client Will:                                                                                     function.

Identify individual reasons/stressors contributing to situation.

Discuss satisfying/acceptable sexual practices.

Demonstrate improved communication and relationship skills.

 

ACTIONS/INTERVENTIONS                                  RATIONALE

Independent

Discuss client’s perceptions of sexuality as learned                     Gives permission to the client to talk about sex and
in family/relationships. Ask client about past abuse/                    in a safe environment. Many abused individuals
sexual abuse during history taking.                                                  feel guilty about sharing family secrets, fear
                                                                                                                reaction of others, and are concerned that they will
                                                                                                                not be believed.

Determine usual pattern of functioning and level of                      Provides information about how client views
desire as well as vocabulary used by the client.                             sexual activity and areas of lack of knowledge/
                                                                                                                misinformation.

Identify sexual problems present for the client, e.g.,                      Sexual abuse is demonstrated in many different
using sex as a weapon to control/dominate partner;                     ways depending on the extent, duration, and
avoiding/afraid of sex; or engaging in promiscuous                      presence of threat/fear of violence. Survivors and
behavior, seeing sex as an obligation; fear, anger, or                    offenders require long-term therapy to change
disgust with touching (particularly sexual touching);                   attitudes about sex, sense of self as a person/
feeling emotionally distant during sexual activity;                         sexual being, and general feelings related to the
painful intercourse; or orgasmic difficulty.                                      abuse.

Identify cultural, religious, and/or value factors and                     Beliefs/values of client will affect view of what has
conflicts present.                                                                                 happened and feelings about situation, influencing
                                                                                                                therapeutic treatment program.

Note substance use/abuse.                                                                May affect sexual function/satisfaction, requiring
                                                                                                                therapeutic intervention.

Avoid making value judgments and be aware of                            Judgments and negative responses do not help
own feelings and response to client expressions,                          client to cope with situation and may result in
revelations, and/or concerns.                                                            client withdrawing and not talking further.

Provide information about anatomy/physiology                            Lack of accurate knowledge may contribute to
and individual situation according to client needs.                       problems client is experiencing.

Note coping style exhibited.                                                              Client may use repetition and reenactment of the
                                                                                                                molestation/abuse incident(s) or may avoid sexual
                                                                                                                stimuli.

Encourage use of higher-level defenses (e.g.,                                Successful intervention focuses on having the
repression, sublimation, and intellectualization) by                       survivors become gradually aware of the painful
limit-setting, education, interpretation, and                                     memories and verbalize them instead of acting
desensitization.                                                                                    them out or avoiding them. Note: Goal of therapy        
                                                                                                                is to free individual of emotional anesthesia and
                                                                                                                the sense of living a “lie,” allowing client to begin
                                                                                                                to feel trust and tolerate intimacy.

Set limits on seductive behavior when displayed.                         The difference between acceptable physically
Help client distinguish the difference between                               affectionate behavior and behavior with sexual
acceptable and unacceptable behaviors.                                         intent, as well as respect for own and others bodily
                                                                                                                privacy, needs to be learned. The sexually abused
                                                                                                                child may have difficulty differentiating
                                                                                                                affectionate from sexual relationships and may be
                                                                                                                aroused by routine physical or psychological
                                                                                                                closeness.

Help client learn to say “No” to sex.                                                 It is difficult for survivors to learn to say “Yes” to
                                                                                                                sex until they can learn to say “No” at any time.

Encourage careful selection of future sexual partner                     Helps incest/abuse survivors develop a positive
and delaying sexual activity until a friendship is                            sexual experience. Individuals heal best in
established. Suggest investigation of new partner’s                     relationships high in emotional intimacy and
past involvement with the criminal system in regard                     support and low in expectations of sexual
to abusive behavior.                                                                            interaction. Past behavior/involvement with the
                                                                                                                justice system can provide clues to future
                                                                                                                problems that may be anticipated.

Encourage client to share thoughts/concerns with                       Appropriate self-disclosure in current/future
partner.                                                                                                  relationships will help couple develop positive
                                                                                                                relationship.

Identify sights, sounds, smells, and types of touch                      Triggers can cause the feelings and fears to recur.
that are associated with the event/trigger flashbacks                   Reexperiencing the event in a flashback is a
for the survivor. Discuss ways to minimize                                     traumatic occurrence and affects current
flashbacks/deal with triggers.                                                            relationship/intimacy.
                                                                                                                Avoiding or learning to deal with triggers helps
                                                                                                                individual to remain in the safety of the present.
                                                                                                                For example, a specific sexual position may trigger
                                                                                                                anxious feelings/flashbacks. Sexual partner
                                                                                                                “allowing” survivor to take control, choose
                                                                                                                alternate position can lessen these feelings,
                                                                                                                promoting trust and enhancing emotional growth. 

Tell the client that recovery is possible.                                          May believe that problems will last forever, and it
                                                                                                                can be reassuring to hear that therapy can help the
                                                                                                                client gain a positive, healthy perspective on sex
                                                                                                                and engage in positive relationships.

Collaborative

Refer to clinical nurse specialist, professional sex                         Problems may be deep-seated and require
therapist, family counseling as appropriate.                                    specialized/prolonged therapy.